So since trip, W has texted me everyday. Pretty unimportant things. Been busy with GAL still. Feels like I don’t have time to stop and sit down for 5 minutes but it’s good.
From what W was telling me recently that if she isn’t with our S then she is going out drinking. She used to be a real homebody and barely wanted to go out once a week. I also imagine she probably has her mom watched S sometimes so she can go out. Her mom is definitely an enabler. She also has not been hanging out with her old group of friends. They have expressed to me that they don’t support her decision so I imagine that’s why she has found a new group of friends.
I guess this might classify her as wayward now. After BD she was still a homebody and it seems that when we separated was when she started this new behavior. The things she is doing are out of character. I recall Sandi telling me that if she were to become WW that I should be far more firm with her. I think my goal now is to stop allowing the cake eating. I feel that I am doing well in all aspects but that.
Side note, over the past few weeks I have had multiple people say “you’re like a whole new man”, include my W. I think this relates to my 180s, especially changing my negative attitude/views on some things. Feels good knowing other people are seeing my positive changes as I try to be the best version of me. Thanks!
