Heartbroken and Struggling - Part 2

[LB55]

Are WASs typically nice to their Hs? Except for telling me ILYBIANILWY and that she is not physically attracted to me, she has been very nice through this whole thing. In my post above, it was her idea to go on this family sporting outing last night. She still texts me about her day. ARRRGGHHH, I get so confused.

I can't speak for anyone else. Mine is not. She is a raving lunatic, she is playing the victim card at every corner, she used the nuclear weapon of abuse in court, etc. Reasonable and amicable to her means that i give her whatever she demands; if i don't then it is my fault we are here again. Moving past the constant blame is tough.

The only thing that is consistent is that i am the root of all of her problems. Everything else swings wildly back and forth.

I have improved my listening skills, my mindset, and my interactions with her. The anger from her has subsided a little, the demands not so much. The anger comes back whenever i don't agree to her demands. She calls it standing up for herself; i call it acting like a selfish B. Not to her face of course. We can agree to disagree.

She did dig through some drawers and get some old pictures of the kids that we didn't give away(wallet sizes) from 5-8 years ago and put them in a folder and gave them to me for fathers day. The expectation was that i would be super thankful and so happy that she went out of her way to do this for me. She was mad at me for not giving her a mothers day gift.