Are WASs typically nice to their Hs? Except for telling me ILYBIANILWY and that she is not physically attracted to me, she has been very nice through this whole thing. In my post above, it was her idea to go on this family sporting outing last night. She still texts me about her day. ARRRGGHHH, I get so confused.
Reading this and the rest of your posts, it sounds like you are in the Friend-Zone. She is not "in love" with you or attracted to you at the moment - if she was you would not be here. Ready2Change provided you a link at the beginning of your first thread that had some attraction tips, did you read it? If not I would suggest going back and reading it right away.
Congratulations on the weight loss (the D stress diet...) and the workouts! Keep it going, hit the workouts hard, great for the body and the mind. Eat healthy, cut out any junk, drink lots of water, get to the doctor for a physical if you haven't been in awhile, get some new clothes, and get busy with GAL activities. Be a great dad. Plan some stuff for just you and the kids. Keep the career on track and flourishing.
Don't get emotional around the W. DO NOT CRY IN FRONT OF HER AGAIN. Just don't. Stop any pursuing activities. Focus on your workouts, career, parenting and GAL. W will not become re-attracted to you unless you are conducting yourself in a manner that is attractive. Read Coach's posts regarding attraction again.
I am very sorry you are going through this sitch, I know it is not fun. But you sound like a great guy with a lot to offer and you are on the road to self-improvement already. Step up your game in every area of life and many many good things are coming your way. I know you long for your W's love and affection but you cannot be ruled by her feelings and opinions of you. Once you obtain a mindset that your happiness is up to you and no one else, that the only person who controls you is you, and that likewise you control no one else, you can transcend your sitch and see yourself and your life and those in it with clarity. And it's going to look great.
