Wow your situation is a lot like mine. My w was dependent on me for everything the first 15 years. She didn’t have many close friends and her sister was out of town. That turned into she lost her identity and she was just LH’s husband. The funny thing is now she is dependent on her parents. She does everything with them.
Wow, that is crazy. My W also is depending on her parents now emotionally. Sad thing is her parents are enabling her by "being there for her" and trying to get back control over her life by magnifying her history rewriting about how I am to blame for her decision to D and she is blameless in this whole thing.
Originally Posted by LH19
You have to set her free and live your life like she’s never coming back. Isn’t that the true testament of love? Giving her what she asked for with zero resistance.
Would be so much easier to love her that way if I did not have two blameless kids suffering the consequences of this
