Exactly right. Many (maybe most) LBS's eventually do get an opportunity to reconcile and turn it down. Some because they "don't want to go through that again" and others because when someone refuses to love you, well eventually you quit loving them too. It's hard for most newer LBS's to believe that they will ever fall out of love with their WAS, but it absolutely does happen.
Thanks AS. At this point I still love my family and I would take her back to keep the wonderful thing we build over 10 years. But you are right that with time things are likely to change. One of the reasons for my "desperation" is that I know I cannot wait forever and I fear losing what I have because I decided to move on The confusing thing is she still shows signs of love and that is preventing me from moving on and driving me crazy. I guess time and space will help me also
The confusing thing is she still shows signs of love and that is preventing me from moving on and driving me crazy. I guess time and space will help me also