I’m back to more normal now. Hormones don’t help a situation.
D11 and I went on a shopping spree Tuesday night. We got ice cream after and had quite a convo. Questions on whether or not my ex was dating his wife when we were married. She said “ he can’t be my dad if he did something so horrible” I told her what happened between adults doesn’t affect him being your dad. She thought about it and said “you’re very happy now, mom” I told her I was so there was nothing to worry about. She told me she really likes M and his son is just so cute. I’m glad everyone likes each other.
She almost got high honor roll! Well, I’m my book she did. And 89.2 and the teacher couldn’t give her an A. Grrrr. But I told her in my book, she got straight a’s and she can have the rewards I promised her. I’m really proud of her, she rocked it. She was at her grandmas last night and I asked if she told her dad and all he sai was “ nice” she was like “that’s it mom, that’s all he said” so she called me a few times for praise last night. I have it to her
He accepted my dinner invitation last night. We had a really really nice night. Very loving. He slept over. Tomorrow night is movie and Sunday is the party. A friend made a very good point. He’s probably giving all he can give right now. I do think he wants to give a lot. And in ways he is. I’ve got to kind of just let things be for now.
This stuff is hard but it’s worth it
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