Last night my W and I took the kids to a family sporting event. It was such a great time together. W seemed really excited to go. I can't understand why she would want to destroy this beautiful life we have created together. She just doesn't know what she wants out of life.

It dawned on me yesterday that most of us here confuse GALs with 180s. I think that we want our GAL activities to attract our spouses, but these are just for us. The 180s are for our spouses AND for us. My GAL has been focused around exercising, and this is really about wanting to attract my wife. The good news is that I am in the best shape I have been in 20 years. I am starting to turn some heads, hopefully I will start turning the one head that I want to turn.


M: 22, T: 27
Three Children
BD: 12/15/18