She wants half of your successes prior to the marriage...thinks she should be able to go to another man with half of your money...let that fuel your detachment.
My W thought she should get more than half. I stood firm on the legal advice I had gotten but didn't argue. You're putting yourself first from here out.
Don't give her that power over you.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.