J - The Dr. did not make me get tested as I had a blood test about 1 month earlier due to a girl that made me get tested before I slept with her. I agree with what everyone else has said above. Just remember you are in control and it is perfectly ok to request that your partner get tested before you sleep with them. If they really care and value you they won't mind at all. I showed the Dr. my tests and told her I would get tested again if she wanted.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018