I have never ever experienced that intense connection. It’s always been something that was based on judgement. This is a first for me. . Same for new guy. It could be that I am getting excited by his intensity for me. He has told me he’s head over heels. I know a part of that is gonna be because of physical looks which is superficial. . But the more things he says and talks about the more I can just totally relate to. Like we are completely on the same wave length - we both are active, eat healthy, like to talk and communicate, our love languages match, low key and peaceful and collaborative personalities. Analytical.
ah I hate to be all negative but have to say this post is concerning. Head over heels in a week?? I have never experienced this (to be honest, it's probably not possible for me because of my personality) but have seen this several times. It does not typically end well. This post reminds me of what I see from people on social media when the just meet someone and suddenly are 'in love'. 3-6 months down the line.... you don't see those posts anymore.
Let that analytical side of the brain take over for a bit. Love is a drug. Once that brain chemistry takes over, it's hard to regain control until it wears off. I hope this all works out for the best for you. Sure enjoy the ride now but be careful.
Oh.... and a question. How do you know this is the first time new guy has felt this way??
