I truly believe over a 5 year period more then half will get a chance to reconcile but most won’t because it’s too late. Once time goes by you will realize life is too short to want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you. (Read my tagline) .
I agree with what you said LH. Life is too short to be waiting for someone who does not want you. It's a shame because while the MR was not perfect it was not broken to the extent of D either. Even today exW does not know why she wanted the D. She has convinced herself by rewriting history but I guess that is all it takes. It's sad and depressing when you realize you have no control. DB is the only thing I can do but all it helps me with is to detach and move on. Again, what else can I really do other than detach and move on