DB is about making needed changes and making yourself stronger which in turn will give yourself the best chance to attract your W/Ex back. The truth of the matter is by the time you get here it’s usually too late. Also, most here are unable to implement proper DB because it’s counterintuitive. Then there is the entire timeframe of the process. I truly believe over a 5 year period more then half will get a chance to reconcile but most won’t because it’s too late. Once time goes by you will realize life is too short to want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you. (Read my tagline)
I’ve quoted on here before a quote by coach Nick Sabin of Alabama “when decisions are made based on emotions there are bound to be consequences”. Your W most likely at some point will regret her decision. It most likely won’t be on your timeline.
Also understand that there are people on here who are piecing and that is no picnic either. Bluewave, Steve and Gordie are struggling in their sitches.