I agree, I almost want to bring up the podcasts with her because I know she will then think twice about them. She did tell me she felt she was going insane and that her brain is the issue. But last week she told me everything is fine lol.

Speaking of teenager antics. My wife went into credit card debt, I called her out on it since some of that money spent was from children accounts. Well I found a mutual fund letter from the bank. Turns out she has gotten some. I think her guilt about the kids $ has woken her up and she is putting money away for once. The only thing I can't believe is she did not discuss it with me at all. For crying out loud I'm her husband, those are our kids, our money. At least she is doing a grown up / responsible thing as far as I can tell.