Hey Destroyd I feel you man, it makes me want to 180 on it but at this point idk if it will help.

LH thanks for the honesty, yeah it should be a happy time forsure. I guess she’s just throwing me breadcrumbs with the flirting and the s*x. When she was thinking I had moved on and had a girlfriend was when she pursued me the most. So it makes sense.

IHC haha that’s okay I feel your post applies here too. She has said that hit list multiple times since BD and yeah I guess she’s saying that to make herself feel better and more justified about leaving. Am I just supposed to validate these hit lists or shut them down as I’ve heard it enough?

Thanks all


Me: 26 W:26
T:6 M:1 S: 1
BD: 3/26/19
DBing: 4/12/19
Separation: 5/20/19
I filed: 8/7/19