Blu that has to be by far the best balanced healthy approach and mindsets about how thoughts whether positive or negative, leads to attitudes and feelings, which lead to healthy action, dynamics, and responses, and totally employs the power of forgiveness. Plus although it might not control it, it shapes our realities of how people perceive us. Its simple too. Although we tend to make things complex. I am going to print that post out, and use it as a daily reminder if what and how I want to change.