I firmly believe that WAWs do not need their own place to find themselves or work on the MR. In fact, that is best done while staying in the marital home, IMHO. However, they need their own place to pursue other people. This is difficult to hear, I know. But unless you are an overbearing warlord, then the only thing she needs "freedom" for is to pursue, date and sleep with other people. All other freedom can be had while still cohabiting.
So do exactly as AS suggests. Focus on you. Become the best you you can be!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018