Tad, congrats again on the new baby! I saw your updates. I don' t post very often on other' s threads but i do follow a few on here. You are one of them.

D18, at supper time tells me: "dad is creaping our old group.you know the one about D23' s grad." "He just texted me a -wow, you guys have been through alot. I am so sorry this happened."

I told her: " no one has ever disrespected him. None of us called him names or belittled him. Two things will come out of this. He will realise how this has impacted us or he will try to build a case against me which will have no ground.
I am not worried.

She said: we would never disrespect our parents.

Me: smile i know!

6h00 pm ex-h came to pick up D16.
Me: i' ll pick her up at 9h30 am thursday. She will have her tcheck up. If they can fit the work into my spot, i will let her have my appointment which is at 3h40pm.otherwise, i will try to schedule for early next week so you do not lose your vacation time. Also, Son will be here. He also has an appointment at 2pm. Therefor, i will bring her back in the evening.

Ex-h : no problem. ... i am not taking her to bf for goodbyes. I looked into her phone and he has been messaging her all day, everyday. Sappy crap. I gave her a tablet for now which she will need my password to get into. As for a new phone, i do.not know when i will get her one.
Did you want her sometimes this summer for vacation or anything?

Me: we

Ex-h: who is we?

Me: me, the girls, son will join us if his gf is not working, are going to spend the week-end with D23. D16 would like to come to. If you agree, i would pick her up friday evening and bring her back sunday evening.

Ex-h: why don' t you keep her here Thursday? Bring her back only sunday. Easier for you this way.

Me: sure! smile thanks!

Today was good. smile