Let her have the dresser. buy a better one. Put a $ value to your two personal items. For example $200 each. I assume you really want these.
If she wants to keep the two personal items, than you will be claiming she owes you $1200 (800+200+200). If she returned the Jacket and the Cup, you will not quibble over the remaining $400.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
