Hahaha Gekko you’re right. I think LH has told me I’m feeding her cake like 50 times. My trouble area forsure.
AS no that doesn’t sound like quality reconnecting. Yeah it’s just that she was so honest when things were ok in the R so I have the habit of believing her even though I know things are different now. I suppose if she really wants to reconnect she would let me know.
I guess in my mind I keep thinking that if we hang out and I allow the cake eating or whatever she will see my positive changes and maybe see R as an option. When she told me how she felt about my distance during the R I felt really guilty.
I feel that if I deny her requests to do stuff together she will see it as more of the same because of my distance. A little clusterfcked in the head lately haha. Really appreciate your guys views.
