Totally understand you destroyd. At least we share this forum to see that we are not the only ones.
There is a plethora of good men in here (not violent, or drug users or gamblers) that simply missed some cues from a wife who felt neglected and found themselves wished into the cornfields by their wife.
It really is like a Twilight zone episode.

And I wholeheartedly disagree with people suggesting that it must have been something on our side.
Our side of the relationship could have been spotless but her demons - past childhood trauma - MLC etc
was simply too strong to fight off.

Last edited by gzabetas; 06/18/19 08:39 PM.
B.D in December 2018
Physical Affairs discovered in April 2019
Divorced May 2019
H (me) 49
W (her) 29