Originally Posted by CanBird
Wow! H messaged me, "thank you".

Even if he did not reply, Keep him up to date on D3. Big events. Updates similar to maybe a sister??

Initially, I would not respond unless direct questions. further down the road "my pleasure" might be a good response.

It is extremely important that you do not let your feeling for H affect your support for his relationship with his D.

It will be his choice about how involved he wants to be with her.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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