Not sure what you meant by "trigerred". Were you saying you believed OM to be there for a moment? Of course, there's a way to avoid that from happening and it's moving back.
I need to continue to have patience. continue to detach and continue to GAL. D9 is making the decision hard - I hate the idea that she will see me and W live like strangers in a house that doesn’t have a spare room for some amount of time until a likely D. Reading about Boundaries and how manipulative she is and has been over the last few years makes me wonder whether I even want anything to do with her anyway. She would need to change a lot and she is way too engrossed in her ‘new life’ to be interested in doing so.
W has messaged me assuming I don’t want to talk because I haven’t said ‘let’s talk’. I think she wants me to make the running to make it easier for her. Don’t really feel the need to jump on it.
2x4s welcome. As are any other comments on the worry I have about D9 on this.
