How common is it for a W to be a WAW and having a MLC? And, does it matter?
My W seems to be going through a MLC with the obsession with exercising, being resentful of getting older, listening to Pop music, R&B and rap all the time now, dressing younger, becoming hyper political/feminist, etc. But the story she presents to me about our marriage is that she fell out of love with me several years ago, I haven't been a good partner (which is cherry picking a few aspects of our relationship as opposed to looking at the totality of what we do for each other).
I am not sure it matters, but I keep beating myself up over her being a WAW as if it proves that I have been a bad husband. Does that make any sense?
