It amazes me how nice we can be to our spouses, and they seem to never really appreciate it. I know my wife KNOWS that I love her more than anyone in her life has loved her before. Except for a few areas, I have always treated her like a queen. But you wouldn't think so when talking to her now! Instead, I have never been a partner. It is crazy talk, I have always been her partner. But she is just not the same person.
I sure hope that all of our spouses realize what they are giving up!