The BCAGD club! Duct tape applied. He texted me something about the kids, one thing has nothing to do with him and the other he knows already. I might reply in a few hours with 2 words. Being quiet this week should be easy because a) I'm overwhelmed with work and b) he has this big work event on. I'm practicing saying internally 'it's none of your business' to his questions, because actually it isn't. I'm sick of this pursuit so I'm not going to do it any more.