Dilly 2.1 part 5

[97Hope]

I don't care if you have to duct tape your hands together, do NOT call him again!!! Give him time. It will be good for YOU. When he fishes around for you, respond with short answers IF they need answered re: kids and finances etc. Good job on not responding.

I have no desire to call my H, but it's hard to stay out of chit-chat via text. I'm done with that. I remind myself to talk to him like I would our accountant (and picture him ugly so I'm not tempted to flirt!). I've noticed the less I reach out to H, the more he reaches out to me. And for some reason today I'm bothered by his mundane talk, so I'm looking forward to being so good at going dark that no matter what he does, I don't have an emotion around it.

Put your mind to it and you can do it. We have a club now, that we are crap at going dark, but since we are all in the same boat, we can encourage each other.