H: "W, I would like to keep this process moving forward. Here is a list of things that I believe still need to be addressed:
1) $1600 phone bill. This was a joint expense that occurred while we were together. I Expect half for $800. 2) Return or purchase of the dresser. I value it at $xxx dollars. A check of the dresser. 3) Return or purchase of these other items.
Thank you for your attention to this matter."
I recommend email for this type of communication. Texting more like :I sent you an email"
Thanks! I went this route and sent her this, no text:
Quote
Subject: Moving forward with the divorce
W,
I would like to keep the process moving forward. Here is a list of things that I feel still need to be addressed.
1) Old cell phone bill of $1,600.84 This was a joint expense that occurred while we were together and I expect 50% payment for this bill of $800.42 2) Return or purchase of the dresser. If you choose to purchase it I value it at $65 3) Return of my personal belongings noted below: *Overkill Jacket *Mtn Dew Dewshine Cup Please respond with how you would like to proceed with these.
I appreciate your attention to this matter.
**** ******
M(32) W(30) Together 12yrs Married 2yrs ILYBNILWY 11/23/18 EA Discovered 3/20/19
In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19 W Moved out 3/20/19 M Moved out 5/31/19 W Filed for D 3/3/2020