I am really hoping Goddess keeps us updated. You mentioned a concern of him finding this. I think it would be highly unlikely -- even if he saw this site -- that he could find your threads and identify you among the 100s of posters and active threads.
Also, to our UK ladies that I keep swinging 2*4s at, please read her thread! Read her words carefully from the beginning and note some differences, in how her H has acted, but more so in how she is responding. ... This is the type of thread and model DBing that could have helped me years ago in my own sitch. It is possible to allow healthy detachment ... it also can lead to them coming back ...
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
