Hang in there, this is a big transition to go through! It sounds like your W is acknowledging your changes and that is GOOD! This soon it's not unusual for to take the "it's too little too late" attitude. But that can and probably will change later. With time she may very well decide the best thing in her life was who she left behind. The real question is by the time it takes her to get to that point, will you still be interested. Often the answer is "no".