Ugh. That sounds horrible DV. I don’t know how you could ever deal with that. The idea of running into my H with another woman is pretty high on my list of things I dread. Surreal is the perfect word for all of this; running into your own husband, your own children around town. The separateness. It comes up again and again, always trying to figure out who gets to do what with our daughter when. I’m angry about it. Im angry about a lot of things lately. All the things I feel my H has taken from me and from our daughter by breaking up our family this way. I think a big part of my detachment process needs to be dealing with these feelings on my one in therapy, and making sure not to let them leak over into my interactions with my H.
