D....my dad told me that I would have so much to give to her and her son. He told me he is at the age to where he needs a strong Male role model in his life and how it would be challenging but also that I could do it. He actually made me tear up when he told me that. My mom essentially says the same thing but to be patient and take 1 day at a time. I have told them both about what a good person she is so they want me to be patient. I guess it was just a lot to take in and I feel slightly overwhelmed.
I did discuss the discipline peace with my mom and her and I are both on the same page with staying out of it until the time comes. Truth be told the dr is probably tired at times trying to raise him. She takes him to school every morning, and due to her schedule only gets about an hour in the evenings with him at most. She has a nanny that picks him up from school every day, gives him dinner, homework, baths, etc. So essentially the dr just has to out him to bed.