Yeah I have to agree with Sandi, I chuckled when I read about all the stuff y'all are doing together and then you believe she is feeling the rope drop, LOL! I don't think you understand what dropping the rope is. Dropping the rope would be no dates, no sleepovers, no chatting and texting and having meals together and making plans to do stuff. Dropping the rope is letting her go and leaving her to do what she wants while you live your own life independently of her. It's you not knowing if she's in an A, and more importantly, not caring.
I'm not really sure what you are trying to do but it sounds like you're trying to "nice" her back. That doesn't work, that puts you firmly under Plan B status. Detach!
