R678

I experienced many of these same episodes

Let’s pretend everything is normal!

Well, yes it can make your head spin

And no need to speculate on why

Maybe she is happy the Raptors won

Maybe she broke up with her boyfriend

Maybe her friends were busy

Maybe she is lonely or tired

Stay detached

If she hangs around with you just enjoy it

No relationship talks

Show her (don’t tell her) that you enjoy her company

If she runs away again no problem

You are independently and happily living your own life

Keep expectations at zero

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving