W finds it much easier to know and articulate what she does not like
It is a step in a long journey, a positive one
I think it goes over a multi year period:
I am very unhappy with my life
I am going to try the opposite of whatever I was doing
I do not like X
I do like Y
At some point, I imagine they start thinking about others
But think the empathy chip may be the last piece of the puzzle
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving