If my wife leaves me, I am not sure I will ever be able to look at her again, let alone be at peace with her. She is stealing the love of my life from me, all of my memories and my dreams. I am afraid that I will hate her for that.
Hi Destroyd, that's a crazy amount to process--a partner lost, memories tainted, dreams gone.
After my divorce, I definitely felt hurt and angry. Fast-forward 8 years: My daughter "promoted" this week. My ex and I celebrated with our daughter and had a nice lunch afterwards discussing her future. I ensured the kids got her things for mother's day, she ensured the kids got me things for father's day.
I genuinely hope you do not go down the divorce path and you two reconcile.