Roist Kevin dnj gerda butterfly

Thanks for the well wishes

Father’s Day was fun

I think when things move slowly it’s hard to see progress

But sometimes events like today remind me that things continue to move in the right direction

For the last couple of years Father’s Day has been about me and the kids

That is all fine and well but w was absent or awkwardly present

This year we could all tell she wanted to be there

Not a grudging be there because of obligation

She made some of my favorite foods and bought me a gift

It was a nice day, no stress, no eggshells

And is everything perfect?

No but I am grateful for my highly imperfect life as it is today

Life is messy and imperfect

And I accept that


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving