Oh yes, dark is definitely the plan. He has nothing at all to offer that I need now we've come to some reasonable financial arrangement. If he's not reliable on that, I will formalise a divorce, but so long as he's regular about his responsibilities towards the house and his children, then that's fine.
Lots of GAL today. And all set for the working week in my not-up-to-scratch house with my unwashed fruit in the bowl and my sofa, where the leather is too dry. I feel happy and cosy and looking forward to getting stuck into my work tomorrow with some more vigour and direction.