Hi 97Hope. I just read your previous link/thread (only the first & last) and it felt like I was reading my own story! This is me 2, (minus the bit you wrote about faults/violations). Ages are the same.
If I had more time, I'd read all your posts, but I've got a 3 year old and she keeps me busy. My H is away at work until November. He too started drinking a lot more than usual. A six pack a day or more. I just excepted it. He wasn't drinking and driving. Beers at the end of the day, after hours and hours of renovations, that went on during his 6 months off work. (He just came off working 6 months at sea). The renovations we're on our property. What happened with your H and drinking? (I didn't read all your previous links, sorry)
Bravo to you and how you handled the work situation!
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever