IW - you are right the old R is over. Disruptive change must happen.
I really like your adaptability. These sitches get weird.
Journal-
Talked with W tonight for awhile about some things. I figured we didn’t need to wait until MC next week to feel each other out on this separation thing.
I’m glad we are talking more. Sometimes I make dumb mistakes but just actually talking about stuff is a vast improvement. We won’t fix our MR this way but communication absolutely must happen for our kids sake.
Flood of information. A lot of good stuff, some bad. I would say more but it’s all so subject to interpretation. At the end W asked me for a hug and gave me a 30 second tight hug. One that hasn’t happened in months. It means nothing for R. She is crystal clear what she wants to see from me - deal with my emotional issues.
