Hey Gekko thanks for the advice, I possibly could have but it’s too late now I am here haha. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to go just that I didn’t really want to go with W. I fckin love Disney land and have had fun so far. Feeling pretty detached so I feel like I’ve been able to be here without problem. Sure it’s cake eating by my W but I’m enjoying myself and not worrying about our interactions so whatever.
I’ll do an update on the first day of the trip. In the airport W asked me to get a drink with her. I agreed. While we were sitting she saw a mark on my neck and was convinced it was a hickey. She didn’t get straight batshit crazy but she started questioning me loudly at this very public place. The barrage included “who are you dating. Is it a girlfriend or something casual? Is it one person or multiple?” And so on. To this I replied. “We are in public and I’m not having this conversation right now.” As she continued I said “I’m not discussing my personal life with you.”
She wasn’t happy with me denying her information on my personal life and gave me the silent treatment the rest of the night. Fine by me. When we arrived, I immediately went out and did some GAL, even made a few friends while out and about.
Today at Disney Land was fine. I could tell that W was pissed and her mind was racing about if I had a girlfriend or whatever. But I’m at the point where I don’t really care. I focused on my S and had a good time.
Throughout the day there were three separate occasions where W started interrogation about my personal life. Many of the same questions as before but this time ramped up with “I know you’re dating one of my friends”. I denied but it was like she was convinced I was. So weird and I dont know why she is so certain that I’m dating her friend. She also started saying “I deserve to know what’s going on in your life, we have a kid together.” I replied that “you do not deserve to know what’s going on in my life because we aren’t together anymore.”
It got pretty crazy at one point. Whenever she would question me I just started replying, I’m not talking about this with you. Eventually she said “I’m going to post a picture of you and me together on Instagram and see how your girlfriend likes that.” Totally crazy haha.
There was a lot of sexual tension it felt like and W was definitely pursuing me, touching me many times throughout the day. There was some flirting on both sides. She kept this front up that she didn’t want anything to do with me but her actions were far the opposite.
More later as the trip isn’t over yet but I’ve felt pretty good so far. Been real positive and am enjoying the extra time with my son. Getting better at detaching too I guess. Thanks
