I do like this guy and want to date him. We have been texting and talking and that feels good that he wants that time. He is making and willing to make time to meet (hard cause we both have kids and I really like that. We both agree kids come first but he expressed relationships and time spent are important to him.
There is another guy I was talking to that I don’t want to ghost and I didn’t even go on the site to respond to messages from him, so I want to tell him I’m don’t want to pursue. It’s too many people for me and I can’t multindate. I prefer getting to know someone one at a time even though i know it’s not advised. I haven’t dated anyone and I worry I wil kick myself in the future if things go badly and say, why didn’t I give other guys a chance? This is the 2nd time I go for the first person I meet on lines. But i do selectively respond back to men.
pinn - I think maybe people have many sides to be opposite of? Lol
J. - he did go in for the kiss. A couple of times during the date. Basically told me in an enthusiastic, playful way “I just want to kiss you so badly” I never do that. But we had established connection with the texts and he genuninely seemed so into me that I felt like i wanted to.
Maika - He Made me feel good because he was really open about how excited he was to meet me. No games (unless he’s a really really really good player) he took control by telling me what he wanted (me to respond to his message us to meet up, us to talk) but asking me if I was ok with that. It was very sexy cause it showed that he was confident and in control but respectful. He frequently commented on how much he liked my looks but not in a sexual way. And he mixed it in with asking me a lot about myself so I didn’t feel like he just wanted to sleep with me. I feel like I know where I stand with him. He’s looking for a partner and I know he likes me. So that made me feel beautiful. , Im not going to just junp in and sleep with him. I want to take things slow and see how things go. Get to know him better. We don’t know each other enough to like each other only to like how we feel with each other. That’s what someone told me and it makes sense. It’s a good feeling though.
