Mothers day wh was still at home, so I got the day with the children. I asked wh last week if he wanted to swop weekends.. Hasn't got back to me on that so I have plans with the children can't put my life on hold . I will still offer dinner with us so he gets time with children and then it's up to him.
Regarding meeting the ow and spending the night, I will do as flying solo suggested. Had a good IC session and it was mentioned IC stated the same as dillydaf yep wh is a toddler throwing his toys out of the pram and in this instance I was the adult and expected wh to be an adult to guess not. IC said I was taking my power back and wh doesn't like it as where has his meek and mild wife gone. Well you fired me so meek and mild is no longer home. IC stated that if I allow wh to have my weekend he will see it as a win, but really I have won as I am staring up and being an adult.
Overall feeling pretty positive, I know it can all come tumbling down but today is a good day
