Unchien, She wants to see my IC becasue... before she moved out and when I found out about GGW event I had started to push/suggest she seek some counseling (she didnt know I knew about GGW) so it was not exactly clear why I was asking this. Furthermore, I have made one of my stipulations for reconciliation IC/MC. More recently I have just been referencing MC because I did not want her to feel like I'm diagnosing her, or pushing HER. Just that to get through this (if we so choose) will require 3rd party help. We discussed before seeing the same counseling (Individually) then also together in previous discussions. So in short.. this is her taking the 'next step'. I'm actually a little torn that she chose IC since I had bee referencing MC for so long, but also a little proud of her because I do believe she has her own issues and 180's to work on before we can actually focus on MC.
H(me:) 44 W: 45 T: 16yrs M: 13 S: 9 S: 6 Pre BD (not really recognized by either) 8/18 PA 11/18 PA suspected 12/22/18 (Denied) PA confirmed 12/28/18 PA #2 (Different) 2/16/19 S: 4/7/2019
