Hey Dillydaf. I just read your posts on here about being misogynistic.
Dillydaf: "We lived such separate lives both of us felt resentful of each other and unvalued and lacking in understanding of the other person's perspective. In any M there are inequalities and misunderstandings and these creep in and multiply over time, sometimes these are gender-based and sometimes they're power-based, and the two interact."
This statement about sums it up. Its not that I am hurt, resentful, totally bitter, or jaded completely torwards my W (Yes it is am emotion that comes and goes because of the division of the family.) But I try my hardest not to act that way torwards her, and realize that's some of the things that she is experiencing has absolutely nothing to do with me, and is her own personal issues that she has to work on and then there are some of the things I do have to do with me. Which I've done my best to acknowledge address and validate.
What I am having a problem with the ideologies of the feminist community the arm one hand promoting some good encouraging things for women and on the other hand are promoting false teachings, and toxic extremities, what do you want to research it and acknowledge it or not. Granted these are all theories to some men who are also considered extremist, and are bitter and jaded as well, but they have a lot of very valid points when it comes to bitter influential feminism, some false teachings, and what they are promoting to women. That is what is making me jaded and bitter. Because I see it as a general pattern in society in the relationships between men and women as well as all of my own relationships. Now you can argue with me on whether it's me or not, and whether I need to adjust my attitude and some of my own beliefs. Which is partially true. But I'm honestly trying to see reality for what it is and what's a societal standards and beliefs are encouraging. It's not that I'm putting down women. It is that I am calling not all of them, but a lot of them out on the double standards that they impose on us men within relationships because of current social conditioning and feminism. You can honestly say the same thing about the current state of affairs with us mend and that there's too much toxic masculinity going around. The truth is we all need to start looking to the past and how things work and how things were better and start improving our own behaviors and stop completely blaming the other sex for it. Another words we both need to take accountability for the way things are in society today we're not going to have a society left. Maybe my viewpoint and opinions are too generalized. I'll see what I can do to broaden them. Thanks for the 2 x 4 and your input
