We are going to this place called Pinstacks….essentially like a Dave and Busters but for kids. I can tell she is ready to get this ball rolling!!
Saw the XW at my oldest volleyball game last and let her know that the girls would be meeting the DR and her son. She was very supportive, asked what she did, where she lived, etc. I had no problems answering her questions. She started to talk a little more about her BF and the girls as well. She told me that my youngest tells him that her daddy has big muscles. I don't know if she is being protective of me in her little mind, maybe she is comparing, I don't know but I thought it was interesting. I did tell my youngest that it was ok and she just laughed. Maybe they are processing everything in their own way in their little minds. They seem really happy though so hopefully it's not a big deal.
Saw the Dr. last night for week night get together, will see her tonight for date night and then again on Saturday for our kid activities. Sunday is Father's Day so I will be out on the lake with friends and the girls. I asked the XW if I could keep the girls longer on Sunday and she had no problems with it.
I have noticed we are spending more and more time together. I feel more relief knowing that she is going to meet my kids and friends this weekend. Not sure why but now that my kids know, my XW knows and my friends know It doesn't feel like I am sneaking around. It's kind of hard to describe.