As far as I can see we’re done you’re taking every step to preserve yourself even at to the detriment of the kids and ensuring that any remnants of a relationship we may have burns at the same time so yes I’m frustrated,angry, sad and scared but hey get a good nights rest
This is the type of thing I get, makes me feel like s**t, for protecting myself from conflict. All wh wants is for me to roll over say yes and then he will be happy. He throws this line our relationship about, and to say we are done. Hang on you are in the wrong and make me feel as if I am the one who is burning it down where is the sense.
I know FS has said I should allow this, but should I? It's just another thing that I back down from, he has practically taken it away by already asking the children, so I look bad to the children to take this away from them. I honestly feel like saying f it you have the children, I am out done with all this crap, the feeling I am wrong even when I validate him it wrong. There is no relationship and will blame me for d, as I wouldnt back down and I am emotional and irrational