I've never forgotten her or her story even though I knew her only briefly. I remember asking her, while we were talking, why she thought her husband had done what he'd done - what was in his head? And she shrugged and smiled and said something like, 'I spent a long time thinking about that, and it was time wasted. There's no reason that could make me change my mind about him now.' I'm typing this out as much for myself as I am for you - sometimes the whys and wherefores don't matter. Obviously neither of our H's have done anything QUITE as bad as the spouses we're talking about (and I think women can be like this too) but I am trying to remind myself that the principle is the same. I hope you have lots of fun today - you deserve it.
