The no dating thing is my rule if we separate. We didn’t even discuss it yet. I doubt it will be an issue.
Won't be an issue because you have no way to enforce it.
Her: "Okay I won't date while we are separated."
Later.......
You: "I found out you've been dating! That is a violation of our agreement." Her: "Oh, oops."
You are trying to control her. That is pressure. It will be your undoing.
If it isn't an issue, then don't put that in the separation agreement.
Good point. Maybe best unspoken for now.
It raises an interesting point... I also feel like if we separate in my circumstances that it's best making this informal as possible. I know I am on edge about being served D papers. After last night, I think my W is as well. So the less we can wrap this up as some legal thing with terms it's probably for the best. It does expose me to some risk in particular with custody, yes, but so be it. If the point is to repair trust, legal docs aren't going to help.
