7h00pm.. home ( yes, i was in emerg for 6h00 ) D18 wants an update. I try to calm my shaking.. i watch a little bit of tv . I go to bed and sleep until my alarm.. yes ahhhhhh! How rejuvinating.
Day 4: i go to work. D18 informs me that ex-h will drop off and pick up D16 all the way. 11h30, i pick up D16 for her lunch and she tells me today was the first day of exams. She has no class in the afternoon. I bring her home. Give D18 the keys for my car and tell her to take D16 out because she will need it. She will get bored and the time spent together the 2 of them will do good.
They bring me back to work.
D16 is working 8 to 4. I keep my eyes on him all day. In the morning, i got scared. My boss comes to me to say: guess what? Aparently, they just pulled the plug on his grand-father" He had told D16 that his grand-pa was dying and he had asked for the day off and was refused. When D16 told me and said: "did he tell them why because i am sure they would not have refused." She said: " i don' t know but he passed away tjis morning and he did not have the chance to say goodbye! THIS WAS 2 WEEKS AGO. My boss felt like crap because she had not giving him the saturday off and today, he died again.. An alarm went off in my head. I am here. My car his hete so he knows D18 is not watching D16. Ex-h is at work and D16 is at school. I go find him to see if he is still here. I ask my boss if he asked to get off early. She said she did not know. Me and his boss do not get along and i do jot trust her so i go for the butcher and ask him if he could please let me know if he leaves work early asap. ( he would know because the manager i do not like would complain about being short staff all day ). He agreed. I got off at 3h00pm and bf was still there. I got home. The girls were ok. Watching tv. 3h15 pm ex-h comes over to pick up D16. We are both calm. We get into an understanding that D16 will spend the summer with him. She will not work with me. He understands my concern over his schedule which will not allow him to be there for her 24-7. I explained my dilemma. I thanked him for taking the time off next week . ( yes, he told his boss that like it or not, he is taking it off to take care of this. ) i was shocked and so happy! I told him i need him always have but ( moment of silence) i was glad he is adressing this with me. That together, we can beat this. He said: with this said, sell the house. She cannot come back here. I agree.
He took a look at my pile of garbage and i was expecting a question about the tires but no.. he asked whos matress was this? (Lol).. i daid Son it has been in the basement for years.. Hr asked if the town were gonna pick it up. I said no. I am taking advantage of the free drop-in. I' ll be taking it to the dump. I got until the 16th.
I would not be surprised if ex-h shows up with a trailer tomorrow.. Lets wait and see.
Now, i have typed so much, i do not know if i missed anything. But this is the global of it for now. I' ll keep you posted..
