(((Solo))) My heart goes out to you. Your WH sounds a lot like mine. He introduced our kids to the OW last July (lied to them...told him he wanted to introduce them to her son (a student at his school) and passed her off as "the mother"). He "moved in" with her last May and started leading a double life until I found out about it in mid-September. Even then, he INSISTED she was a "roommate" that he "barely knew" until March when he could not deny it any longer. He recently bought a house with her so he is all in.
I know how tough this is. TRUST ME... it will get better in time. I will be divorced soon and am looking forward to it being over. I didn't think I would EVER feel that way. I thought he was the love of my life. But he changed... A LOT... and he lied and cheated for so long that he destroyed any chance we ever had to save our family. He is but a shell of the person I once loved. That person is long gone and I see that now. I am happier than I was. I've made some new friends. I've met someone who happily gives me the affection I was so starved of in my marriage. Don't know if it is going to be a long term thing, but it is great right now. I see things clearly now and you will too. You just have to get through this time until the fog clears. It is liberating when it finally does. It REALLY is!!!
Stick to your guns. Accept nothing less than what you deserve. Sending you lots of love and (((HUGS))) from across the miles.
